Just remember: this is a note, not a Talmudic passage to be read and re-read for every hidden nuance, message and subtext.
(Being overly analytical can be a real burden here.) If you have an issue to resolve, try to do it over the phone or in person. To cut down phone costs, try calling your Beloved One when you know he or she won't be in – and leave a "thinking of you" message on voice mail.
So rarely does one cliche so succinctly sum up something.Remember this: if you can't openly discuss your feelings about how you're spending money, you'll have a hard time building a long-term relationship with this person.Keep in mind that the tensions that arise now are opportunities to strengthen your relationship for the future.For instance, unless you're looking for a casual, non-exclusive relationship, at some point, one of you is going to have to move.That can add a whole lot of stress to your already strained couplehood. Are you evaluating whether one of you will move, and if so, does that mean marriage?